And just like that Marshalls has their autumn candles and Halloween decorations on display. How did we get here so fast? It was just August 1st… but whatever. I’m back on the mic and back on my laptop feeding my creativity and warming up my throat chakra for the return of Season 5 of the podcast. After a much needed mental health break and an emotional rollercoaster called Cancer season, I’m happy to report that your girl is doing the best she’s felt in a really long time. I was reflecting on this yesterday and I think I came to the conclusion that I haven’t been this content and excited for my life in honestly like a year and a half. That’s how long I was in a weird, uncomfortable, funky transition aka scorpionic rebirth cycle. But I’m grateful for it.
That shit was hard AF, I’m not going to lie. But I actually feel like I might be on the other side of it. And with a new version of myself comes so many lessons, realizations, shadow work, grief and loss of previous connections. And that’s okay. Isn’t that the point of this human experience? To go through hard shit and then find the sigh of relief on the other side? And we never know how long the bliss or smooth sailing is going to last but we at least have the comfort of knowing that we can always get through hard shit and come out on the other side still alive (and hopefully a better person).
In this next season and last few months of the year, I really want to focus on my expansion, my creativity and my faith. If I’ve learned anything in the last few years it’s been to always have unshakeable faith… in yourself, in God, and in the timing of your life. I can’t remember a time where I’ve prayed for something and it didn’t eventually show up or reveal the answer in some way. I am walking proof that things can and will continue to work out for you even when you’re in a rock bottom. It’s all about the feeling of certainty and focusing on what’s coming instead of what you can’t currently “fix” or change. Instead we can learn to focus on what we do have control over and how that aligns with the future that we envision for ourselves.
Always focus on the vision.
What I’m Listening To
Ever since Jupiter entered Cancer I’ve been on this nostalgic, dreamy, main character energy vibe. Lately I’ve been tapping into 2000s pop and movie soundtrack hits. And it’s been keeping me motivated to stay on top of my work and stay active with my workouts and walks. If this has been your vibe or you’re feeling like you need a boost of high vibrations this month then check out this Spotify playlist below.
Season 5, Episode 9
In this episode we revisit my horrific date this summer that actually inspired the main topic for this episode. I briefly give a summary of what happened when I went on a date with a guy who attempted to hold my hand after 30 minutes of conversation. I’ve already explained ALL the weird deets on a YouTube live and in a TikTok series for people with short attention spans. But I mention the fact that this man was not able to deal with rejection and immediately asked for the bill and told me that things weren’t going to work out because he couldn’t be with someone “conservative”… yeah it got real weird.
But this concept of rejection popped into my head. We all have to face rejection at different points and spaces in our lives. For some people, they have a stronger rejection muscle, which can be directly linked to their resilience and confidence. But those who cannot face rejection and take everything personally are usually the people causing their own misery, resentment, or anxiety, as well as other people’s. And I’m sure we’ve all been there. But over time we should be improving our reaction to the feelings of rejection. It only helps us build character and open up space to receive the blessings and things that are meant for us.
I hope that you enjoy this episode and that it sparks something in you to keep going. We’re getting wildly close to the end of the year and Virgo season is screaming focus, accountability, discipline and abundance. Let’s lock in and take a look back at those 2025 Intentions or Resolutions, whatever you personally call them.
Journal and reflect on this: What have you been neglecting this year and what needs your attention right now? It’s time to get back to it!
My calendar is open for Creative Mentorship sessions and Confidence Coaching. If you need a little boost this season and need a cheerleader and strategy then apply and let’s WERK. Not sure which one you need? Feel free to shoot me a message or email, or apply to both and I’ll let you know what I think you need the most in this season of your life.
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Have a beautiful weekend! Take it easy this eclipse season and be sure to do something that makes you feel aligned and at ease this weekend.
